How to break a Habit: 5 Tips for Success

How to Break a Habit


Bad habits like smoking, drinking, overeating, or procrastination are common struggles. If we know something is harmful, why can’t we just stop? Research, including insights from NIH-funded, reveals that breaking bad habits isn’t just about willpower but it’s also about understanding how our brains work and leveraging strategies to form better habits. 

The Science Behind Habits

Habits are formed through repetition of a thing that has a reward at the end. For example, Your phone buzz a message and you check the message(reward). When you engage in enjoyable activities—like eating junk food or smoking—your brain releases dopamine, which strengthens the habit. Over time, these behaviours become automatic. Which makes them harder to quit. 

 

According to Dr. Nora Volkow, director of the National Institute on Drug Abuse, “These routines can become hardwired in our brains,” making it feel like we’re battling against ourselves. However, as Dr. Roy Baumeister highlights, humans have the ability to set long-term goals and exercise self-control, which can be improved over time. 

 

Key Challenges in Breaking Habits


1. Hardwired Behaviors

The original habit doesn’t disappear when you adopt a new one. Both remain in your brain, competing for dominance. The first to hit dopamine will win your control. (Mind Games)

2. Dopamine Cravings 

Even when a behavior stops being enjoyable, dopamine triggers cravings that reinforce the habit and that’s why some habits like smoking are hard to quit.

3. Willpower Fatigue 

Resisting temptation can drain your willpower, making it harder to stand firm against future urges. Be smart instead of resisting, take yourself in control.

 

Strategies to Quit Bad Habits 

 

1. Make Good Habits Attractive and Simple

In the book Atomic Habits (by James Clear) clearly portrays the way of making a good habit unique and attractive and that can lead us to development of Good Habit and also vice-versa. For example: 

  1.  Attractive: Find ways to associate pleasure with the new habit. If you’re quitting smoking, reward yourself with something you enjoy every time you resist the urge. 
  2. Simple: Remove barriers. If you want to eat healthier, prepare your meals in advance to avoid relying on fast food. 

 

2. Habit Stacking

Pair a new habit with an existing one to create a seamless routine. For instance: 

  • After brushing your teeth (current habit), do 10 push-ups (new habit). 
  • Post-workout, follow up with a productive task like making a sales call. 

 

This creates a chain of positive behaviours that reinforce each other. 

 

3. Visualize Success

The great way to avoid temptation is to imagine the lifestyle you dreamt of and this is help you to stand firm in making progress of breaking the bad Habit. Usually breaking a bad habits takes only 21 days and after that you can easily get out of the temptations.

 

5. Change the Environment

Our brains are really great at copying stuffs from others. We need to surround ourselves with the people we want to become and also we need to make the environment to our favour. For example: If you go to bed, you would mostly fall asleep because your brain knows this is the place to sleep.

 

Overcoming Setbacks 

 

Dr. Russell Poldrack explains that replacing bad habits with good ones is effective, but it doesn’t erase the original behavior. Consistency and practice are key to suppressing the old habit. Additionally, incorporating alternative behaviors like exercise can help counteract urges. 

 

Wish you all the best in breaking the bad habits and Make sure to read “Atomic Habits” to know how small change in your Habits can bring you Success and the Freedom you are looking for.

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